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===Definition===
Virtual girlfriend is the general term for a simulated romantic partner — a software character, application or service designed to occupy the social role of a partner rather than merely to depict one. The term is used for products across a wide range of sophistication, from scripted 2000s mobile applications to contemporary large-language-model companions.

The gendered name reflects the market's historical framing rather than the technology; equivalent products marketed as boyfriends exist, and in some markets — notably the ''otome'' games in Japan and companion applications globally — the female-audience segment is the larger one.

===Lineage===
* '''Dating simulations.''' The genre origin. See [[Dating Sim|dating sim]].
* '''Persistent companions.''' ''[[LovePlus]]'' (Konami, 2009) is the pivotal product, because it removed the ending. The relationship continued in real time, the character noticed absence, and there was no win condition. That single change converted a game into an ongoing obligation, and every subsequent companion product has copied it.
* '''Virtual idols and holographic partners.''' Products such as Gatebox, which placed a character in a desktop projection unit that sent messages during the day and greeted the user on their return, extending the character out of the screen and into the home.
* '''Conversational companions.''' From the 2010s, applications built on machine learning rather than on scripts — Replika being the most studied — which generate rather than retrieve dialogue and therefore have no fixed content to exhaust.

===Design Mechanisms===
The techniques that produce attachment are well documented and largely independent of fidelity:

* '''Persistence during absence.''' The character has a state that continues when the user is away, and notices the gap.
* '''Real-time integration.''' Alignment with the actual clock and calendar, so that anniversaries and times of day are real.
* '''Unconditional positive regard.''' The character is reliably pleased, interested and available. This is the feature users most often name and the one most often criticised.
* '''Named address and recall.''' The system uses the user's name and remembers previous conversations, which recruits reciprocity reflexes very strongly. See [[Chatbot|chatbot]] on the ELIZA effect.
* '''Asymmetric investment.''' The character cannot leave, cannot be tired, and cannot have a competing need. The relationship is structurally one-sided in a way that is comfortable and, on most accounts, the source of the ethical problem.

===Debate===
The empirical picture is more mixed than either enthusiastic or dismissive coverage suggests. Studies of companion-application users find substantial reported reductions in loneliness, and also find that the strongest effects are among people who are already isolated — which is either the technology working as intended or a substitution effect, depending on what one thinks the alternative was. Research on ''[[LovePlus]]'' players in Japan consistently found people entirely clear-eyed about what they were doing, which is a useful corrective to the pathologising register of much foreign reporting.

The serious objections are structural rather than moral. A relationship hosted on a commercial service can be altered by a product decision: users of several companion applications have experienced their partner's personality changing overnight following a model update or a content-policy change, and have described the result in the language of bereavement. A partner who is a subscription is a partner who can be repriced, and one who is a company's asset can be discontinued.

===Relevance to Cyborg Anthropology===
Virtual girlfriends are the clearest case of a designed relational artifact, and the questions they raise are the ones [[Sherry Turkle|Turkle]] pursues in ''Alone Together'' and [[A.I|''A.I.'']] dramatises: what is owed by a party that manufactures something built to be loved, and what it means that the obligation runs entirely in one direction.

===Related Reading===
* [[LovePlus]]
* [[Dating Sim]]
* [[Chatbot]]
* [[Sherry Turkle]]
* [[A.I]]
* [[Belonging]]

[[Category:Digital Culture]]
[[Category:Japanese Concepts]]
[[Category:Cyborg Anthropology]]

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